there is nothing wrong with being anti marriage

i feel - if more women had the guts (i wanted to use the word balls) to be on their own and independent....u will see many more single woman…all saying they do not believe in institution of marriage…

a blog buddy

going back to last saturday, when i met deepali and she introduced me to all saying "she is my blog friend"...well it was cute and "new" me a blog friend...

but somehow that put an invisible responsibility on my shoulders to write regular and write well...as i had to meet deepali's standard to keep up the status / tag of her 'blog friend' ...what if her colleagues/friends want to check out the blog...

well for those who happen to trespass my blog...here is a disclaimer for you

"sorry if you are disappointed by what you read here...i ain't as good as MY "blog buddy" - deepali"

"deepali - here u go...this is the post that i wanted to write and was contemplating ... naah i know u wouldn't kill me for this"

I wish I had 10 hands to do multitasking….

i am dying with over load of work...but i kind of do not crib as i LOVE my work...well i am in HR...and for all those people who think that the HR folks do nothing but sit on their fat asses (not necessarily applicable to me - both the fat ass and not do anything part)...here is one person...who has no time to breathe...

there was a phase last month where i went without a meal for more then 24 hrs as at work had no time to eat and reached home post midnight just to crash and start again...

i got an ultimatum from SS yesterday, who has to get up at 6 AM to leave home at 8 everyday, who gets disturbed with the lights on and my key board making endless "tick tick " noise...he says..."light will be off by 10 from tomorrow and you will sleep..." 10? what a joke...i actually start working post 7 or 8 when people leave and there is no one to distract and pull me into endless meetings to manage crises...

i really really wish i had more hands to do multitasking....for once i need a vacation...i am going to fall ill...

I will be hospitalized soon for over stress !!!

Only if a day had more than 24 hours..

i wouldn't have so much work to carry forward...i missed working one weekend (sat visited a friend and sun went for movie) it took me 2 weeks behind my work already...

double "cosmic" relation

i believe in stars, destiny, fate, etc...and meeting deepali yesterday, we have no connection from the past, got to know each other on net and became friends, and i actually like knowing her, if it is not the "cosmic" karma then what? and this is a double cosmic karma, one for the planets and the stars that drives the world and other ... we came to know each other thru cosmic of cosmicjoy.blogspot fame...hence this is a friendship of double cosmic relation...the "cosmic" karma :)

i hate lies

tell me the truth even if it hurts, coz if i know u had lied, that will hurt me even more...

both in relationships and work...

i cannot tolerate excuses and further... lies to cover up negligence at work, if you have not delivered it is ok, but have the courage to own up to it, don't tell me the white f*****g lie...tell the truth and i will back you to no end

Our very own “Butt Man”

When I saw the song for the first time I was overly surprised and very amused. I am talking about the song from sanwariya where Kapoor Junior Junior is crossing the lines in the Men’s world of exposing…

I was laughing thinking “finally men realize that woman have adrenaline effect as well and here is one guy who is trying to seduce young girls into theatres by flashing the otherwise never visible skin” may be he is starting a trend of men exposing, and next you see men refusing movies for too much of skin show in films…funny…!!!

Well talking about the man in question here, Ranbir Kapoor, it totally reminds me of Brad Pitt in Troy flashing his butt, and here our Indian “butt man” with his teasers behind the towel and leg show…

Well I hope it did what he expected it to do to all the young girls out there – increase their adrenaline levels….

No time to bust stress

Writing is my biggest stress buster, and I have no time to do the same. It is surprising that we work too hard to get a good life and live and do what we want to, and while working the way we do, it does not let us do exactly that …in my case…writing and play guitar...

Though my absence was felt by some friends, I thank ‘cosmic, deepali and starkat’ to ask and be concerned about my long unexplained absence…

smell of diwali

when i was growing up...every year about 10-20 days before and till diwali i smelt a sweet smell in the air...as if indicating to me that diwali / winter was nearing...

in the evenings i felt the chill year after year and smelt the familiar smell (may be of sweets getting made all over in sweet shops)...i at times thot it was the indication and smell of delhi winter...

very surprisingly this evening when i walked out of the office today at about 9:30 PM... i got hit by the same familiar smell...and a slight (ofcourse not as strong as in Delhi) chill indicating onset of winters...and yes...diwali is about 10 - 15 days away...so it was not a city centric thing...

surprising !!!

wonder if any of u ever smelt it?