does ass licking take you places?

this friend of mine does not belive in licking bosses ass, he is kind of an introvert, talks when needed, does his work (dedicatedly) and comes back home. does not believe in messing around with people, basically minds his own business.

i keep telling him to improve on his social skills, but he is the way he is. it will take a total personality change for him to go mingle with people without purpose..he is just not manufactured that way.

he and another dude in is work had joined together (one of the top 5 companies world wide).my friend is a well polished, sophisicated one, and the other one is kind of a mess (i have met him so can say so), so he surely will not have problem licking any ass and may be what ever else is required to be licked.

my friend had been working his butt off (he is working on a very complex project), and cracked a some cool stuff (silently), and the other dude though worked on some simple projects(this is known in the team that his projects are no rocket science), talks a lot about the work he does....

today some bigshot had come from US and gave an award to this other dude saying he has come up the pace quickly, while this friend of mine kept breaking his head with the complexities

is this fair? i keep telling him that it need not be ass licking but be vocal and talk about the stuff you .

gone are the days when your seniors would look at the silent hardworking guy and acknowledge his contribution. it is all about how well you can package the work you have done to the management and take the credit for all what u have done (also for what you have not done... )if u have done a simple task such as switching on ignition of a car, portray it as the engine was dead and you did the overhauling and made it work....uff it sucks...

i am really feeling bad my friend and hope he changes a bit, be more vocal about his work, no i do not mean exaggerate, but just talk about what he has done...more than that i hope that the managers and management changes the way they look and think, and finds out the way to identify some genuine guys around....

Every girl wants a Will Truman in her life...

Will Truman and Grace Adler (popularly known as Will and Grace) is a dream relationship for every girl. For them it cannot get better than this.

Why? Just think about it, your best friend, a succsessful and good looking guy , a live in relation (minus the sex), and all the care and love you can ask for.You do not have to worry about refilling milk in the fridge, or making breakfast in the morning, house will be clean, all the bills taken care of, if you have a bad day - you come back and cry on his shoulder, he feels happy for ur new relationships, and guess what he will also advice you on your make up and dresses.....best part is you know for sure that he will not hit on you...

The fact is some where in hearts of hearts we wish that he was straight and they both get together, after all who can be a better life partner than your best friend.

But why are girls scared to have the same relationship with a straight guy? Is it because she does not feel safe? Is sex such a big thing? Why feel scared and go look for a gay guy. What is it? It got to be sex, as apart from it, rest everything is same...you can get emotionally attached to gay as well, miss him when not there, feel cheated when he lies to you, are hurt when he does not do things right...it is absolutely a normal relationship, with happiness and sorrows and also fear of loosing one another, then why look for just a "Will" where you know rest all the insecurity of a relationship exist and only security (if you may call it) is - no sex.....

For me there was no "Will", had a best friend with a similar relationship of caring and sharing.....yes a straight...and guess what...for me the secret dream that we dream for Will and Grace came true, we did what Will and Grace could not ....got married.

Now I have this "Will" of mine, with all the above given features (I will be killed for this) plus a bonus of life time guarantee offer....

So all u girls out there, do not be scared to have a non gay "Will" in your life, you may be missing out on a great relationship, may be a best friend, and if you do not mind (what the heck) sex too. Ofcourse, not all of them will end up in marraige, my husband and I were Will and Grace for 12 years before we tied knot (and our marriage is a surprise to both of us )... but we actually shared the non committed, fun, care, love filled relationship for 12 long years....trust me it can work out with a straight guy also (with or without sex - as you may want it)

So go and have your "Will" in life, you can have it, only if you do not have the condition of him being a gay ...

I'm bored of living

Yeah I know sounds strange. But we had many holidays in Bangalore lately, as the kannada super hero rajkumar died, not only there is an off but also people were forced to be indoors, then a good friday and a weekend. I hate to be home doing nothing. Four days in a row, doing nothing and locked at home, surfing, TV and a bit of shopping, I feel like a waste. I remember when I went through this trip for the first time, it was after my 10th Boards, did nothing but ate, slept, watched TV and ate some more. I have similar feeling now, being usless, sitting home, just killing time, somehow I feel guitly living like this of not being of any use...no i do not mean social service here, it is just the feeling of idleness....so I was telling my husband that I am bored of living, what are we doing living and repeating same things everyday, breathing, eating, loo, bursh, bathe, TV , shop, walk (put this into a loop) and of all this again....aren't u bored of just living???

I hope I am out of this trip soon, may be Monday will cheer me up,and surely i will be waiting for a weekend then.... :)