Tuesday, April 18, 2006

Every girl wants a Will Truman in her life...

Will Truman and Grace Adler (popularly known as Will and Grace) is a dream relationship for every girl. For them it cannot get better than this.

Why? Just think about it, your best friend, a succsessful and good looking guy , a live in relation (minus the sex), and all the care and love you can ask for.You do not have to worry about refilling milk in the fridge, or making breakfast in the morning, house will be clean, all the bills taken care of, if you have a bad day - you come back and cry on his shoulder, he feels happy for ur new relationships, and guess what he will also advice you on your make up and dresses.....best part is you know for sure that he will not hit on you...

The fact is some where in hearts of hearts we wish that he was straight and they both get together, after all who can be a better life partner than your best friend.

But why are girls scared to have the same relationship with a straight guy? Is it because she does not feel safe? Is sex such a big thing? Why feel scared and go look for a gay guy. What is it? It got to be sex, as apart from it, rest everything is same...you can get emotionally attached to gay as well, miss him when not there, feel cheated when he lies to you, are hurt when he does not do things right...it is absolutely a normal relationship, with happiness and sorrows and also fear of loosing one another, then why look for just a "Will" where you know rest all the insecurity of a relationship exist and only security (if you may call it) is - no sex.....

For me there was no "Will", had a best friend with a similar relationship of caring and sharing.....yes a straight...and guess what...for me the secret dream that we dream for Will and Grace came true, we did what Will and Grace could not ....got married.

Now I have this "Will" of mine, with all the above given features (I will be killed for this) plus a bonus of life time guarantee offer....

So all u girls out there, do not be scared to have a non gay "Will" in your life, you may be missing out on a great relationship, may be a best friend, and if you do not mind (what the heck) sex too. Ofcourse, not all of them will end up in marraige, my husband and I were Will and Grace for 12 years before we tied knot (and our marriage is a surprise to both of us )... but we actually shared the non committed, fun, care, love filled relationship for 12 long years....trust me it can work out with a straight guy also (with or without sex - as you may want it)

So go and have your "Will" in life, you can have it, only if you do not have the condition of him being a gay ...

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

lol
so let me get this "straight"
gals like gays? or gals hope gays can one day be straight

well what do u know when i was reading ur post .. at the begining my exact reply was to get involved in a committment .. and u had the same thing at the bottom .. :).. nice goin

just pk said...

hey shailen, so we feel the same :)

why i wrote this is as girls are hypocrates wanting a secure relationship without taking risk, want a nice guy but "nothing else" kind of relationship, and in the fear they loose out on some great friends they can make with guys around, only if they stopped thinking "all that a guy wants from them is sex"...guys can mean friendship too...and they actually make great friends...

Anonymous said...

Hi,I like it and I agree with you,its so true...
and I feel men are better friends,this is my personal exprience.