i have a friend, who is always a bit watchful of what he says, or does. Has this line - and invisible laxman rekha drawn for a fear no girl should enter a territory that she should not...
but not all girls want to enter there...some can just be friends ...
may be he fears that the girl will get attached or may be he will??? or is it that he does not want to share too much? may be he is the one who is scared of intimacy of friendship ...closed to the idea of sharing...
i fear .. if one is too watchful, scared to let people enter the inner circle of friendship...he runs a risk of being alone...
don't know about the rest...but in my case i want to tell him...
"put your guards down, and you just might find a friend to keep for life..."
3 comments:
haha nothing wrong with being alone - you just go insane a little faster lol.
i think i would be able to relate with your friend. i do the same thing and my 'friends' are always saying - never say never. i dont argue. they are just trying to be helpful but deep down i believe we all have a right to whatever denial we want. if i can believe that i am better of being alone, i should be allowed to believe it and not have every person in the world saying i was being stupid or silly or stubborn.
everything has a break point - once the pressure is right even the 'truth' will change.
for me the connection doesnt happen with anyone. i know i could be 'friends' with a lot of people but it would mean a lot of compromise and so i dont see it as being worth it so i just ummmm like this example let them come to a certain boundary.
Many of us will be able to relate to this person .. but not because of a girl crossing the rekha .. but because we are just too careful about who we let into our circle of trust.
good point cosmic...and something for me to think about !!! the circle of trust...
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